Going after what you love

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And, as if by magic, it was all over. The most intense interview that she had ever faced for the job she knew deep down her heart would love to do above all else.

Before the interview, there were so many thoughts and feelings that popped up for her. You’re not good enough for this, you’re not worthy, you’re incapable.

These thoughts had come up a million times before during her life. A guy she liked, you’re not good enough for him. Other jobs she went for, you’re incapable.

Other things she had wanted in her life, you’re not worthy. Life had been hard and tough but then she had realised, with the help of a wise person that all these stories she was telling herself were all made up.

They meant nothing. They were simply stories that had kept her safe as a child but now, no longer served her. They certainly didn’t help her but they did keep her safe and small.

She didn’t want to be safe and small anymore, she wanted to be out there. She wanted to be her authentic self. She wanted to be the person she had always wanted to be.

She knew deep down that she had all the skills required for the job but more importantly, she knew that this job was what her heart wanted.

For when she did this work, there were no conditions about success or failure. There was no judgement from herself or others. She knew, that when she was living her truth and being authentic that no one could question her.

She was real, she would attract the people into her life she needed. And those that did not resonate with her, would simply melt away like they were never there.

She felt loved and supported. She had discovered that her heart was her secret weapon. She would consciously send love to everyone around her, especially during her interview. She would feel her heart expanding and sending out unconditional love with no expectation or need for anything in return.

She was simply using her power. The others felt her love and empathy and understanding and knew in an instant that she was the perfect candidate for the job.

She also put all her focus on her end result which was to get the job. There were others more qualified, that would probably accept less money but regardless of this, she went after what her heart wanted and knew she would get her end result.

It was a dream come true. She would be helping people and making a difference in the world. Changing people’s lives for the better. Changing their children’s lives.

Changing generations of poverty, drug use and alcoholism. She had the opportunity to change it all. This was her genius and her gift to the world and she knew that by doing this, she would be completely fulfilled, content, happy and joyful.

This would help her thrive which was what, she had discovered a few months ago, was what life was all about.

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Why you were born as you were

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We are always born into an environment that will help us grow and evolve into the best version of ourselves. While it may not always feel that way, life is indeed a journey.

There are many lessons and choices that we need to make along the way. These all mould us and shape us into the person we are today.

You may often wish that you had more knowledge when you were younger but the truth is, everything happens as it is meant to. There are not shortcuts for if we take a short cut then we miss out of many lessons.

Our experiences in life are all there to help us grow in many different ways. They shape our future and they help us appreciate what we have, regardless of how little or how much.

Regardless of the environment we are born into, no one just has an automatically easy life. There are always unseen pressures and demons that all of us have to contend with as part of the human experience.

We may believe that someone born into a wealthy family has everything easy. But when all you know is wealth, you do not appreciate it or even understand it or value it. Because you don’t know any different.

You don’t know a life without money and the difficulties it often brings. However, there are many other challenges you would have to deal with.

Fear of losing everything you have could be one. Pressure of making yourself more successful than your parents could be another.

We all have problems, just different problems. But it is these problems that give us strength and resolve. They push us to be a better version of ourselves.

Hopefully, we will one day realise that true success lies in being fulfilled and free to live in our truth. To be our real authentic selves regardless of how crazy we think we are. We realise that chasing material objects, financial wealth is not the answer.

For there are many people with these who are desperately unhappy. The answer is doing what you heart would love to do. To find your purpose in this world.

That is true success, fulfilment and joy. Doing a job you love doing is what serves your heart. In this way, you serve the world in which you live at your highest level. This in return gives you abundance in many different forms, love, joy, freedom, peace and yes, financial.

Chase what you heart would love to do way before you even think about chasing after money. Money will be the byproduct, not the goal.

When you are happy and fulfilled and serving your purpose in the world, you do not yearn for loads of money and cars and houses and other toys.

For all these yearning are trying to satisfy an unconscious and impure need that doesn’t serve our true self.

The simple things in life are often the most beautiful and the most rewarding. Appreciate and be grateful for these and the rest will follow.

You’re In Control

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At the end of the day, when all is said and done, it all comes down to one thing. Have you lived in the moment for today or did you let it pass you by.

Did you just lose a day of your life in unconscious distraction, watching TV, drinking, having meaningless conversations. Or, were you present in the moment. Present with whoever you were spending time with, present in nature.

Did you see something beautiful today. Did you appreciate it. Did you do something that you really loved doing, even if it was only for a brief period of time during the day. Did you argue with someone.

Did you get angry. Did you get sad. Did you get anxious about something in the media. What did you focus on today. Did you focus on creating something that you love. Did you take a step closer to your goals.

Did you do something healthy. Did you help someone else, did you smile at a stranger. Where you kind to someone. What was amazing about today? What did you love?

Now, what will you create for yourself tomorrow. What kind of day do you intend to have tomorrow. Will you set your intention to have a great day, for everything to be easy and playful and joyful. It is all about your focus and what you choose to put your focus on.

Worrying about something thousands of miles away that may never happen or choosing to create an awesome day for yourself. Choose to be present, to make a strangers day, to appreciate your loved ones around you, even the dog or cat.

Choose to imagine that you have the magical power to make everything go right today. Nothing is difficult. You are in absolute flow. You achieve everything you set out to achieve. You realise that you are in control of your day.

You are in control of how you react to everything that happens around you. You can let it derail your day, or you can choose to let it slide past you and continue to have an awesome day. Set your intention, set your focus and acknowledge the difference it makes to you.

Have the awareness to notice the difference and the change. Remember, you deserve to have a great day every day regardless of your circumstances.

And choose to love. Consciously send love to everyone around you, especially those that try to spoil your day for it is never personal, it is just that person struggling with their own life and lashing out at others as they try and make sense of the world they live in.

Unconsciously creating suffering and pain rather than consciously creating love, joy, success, freedom and so on, one beautiful day at a time.

New Birth

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New birth is a wonderous thing. It reminds us that new life is always possible and thrilling. It reminds us that life is exciting and that we have the power to create what we love.

We have the power to create a whole new little being. Almost a replica of ourselves to continue on our life force many years after we have left this earth to continue our journey in another world or to be reborn again in this one.

New life is fascinating and life changing. It gives you new purpose. It may give you purpose where none existed before or it may just renew what you always felt was your purpose.

To create another being and ensure they thrived and had a beautiful human experience for as long as you could make it so. When new life comes into this world it brings a new sense of joy to all the family surrounding it.

It doesn’t just give the mother and father a new purpose but also the rest of the family members. It creates new life in the whole family and ensures that the family continues to exist.

There may be many trials and tribulations but these all make the family unit stronger and more resilient. It is the natural order of life on earth. To bring new life that will strengthen and grow the species.

A new genius is born, full of hope and limitless potential. Many births of new life happen every day, not just humans. A puppy or even a rescue dog that is brought into its new family, is given a chance to thrive and have a beautiful life, full of fun and adventure.

This is the way of the world. It is not to come into life to suffer and struggle but it is to bring joy to all those around you. To bring new hope and purpose.

To bring unconditional love that brings joy and happiness to everyone around. Bird’s eggs hatching in the spring, bringing new life and ensuring the survival of the species.

The proud parents chirping and singing with joy at fulfilling their life’s purpose which is to bring love into the world. You see, if you are in a place of suffering and struggle, remember, in every moment of every day throughout the entire earth, new life is coming into the world and bringing immeasurable love and joy and happiness.

You have the power to tap into this, which will instantly change your focus and your state of mind. You can chose to imagine all the happy and joyful faces looking down on this new bundle of life that has entered the world.

Be it a human or any other kind of animal. Even a spider is joyful when her spiderlings hatch and run about excitedly, looking for their first meal.

The joy and happiness for all mothers turns into nurturing their new young one. That may be giving them life giving milk or finding them another food source, all designed to give their new baby strength and power to thrive.

Just imagine for a moment, that this is what life is all about. It is the natural way of life. Death is also a natural way of life but remember that death on earth is never the end.

It is just a new beginning, just like being born where life once more starts with limitless love and endless possibilities. Just like the sun brings with it, rising every morning for a new day.

Your Focus Creates Your Reality

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Imagine as we travel through time, from thousands of years ago until now, how much has changed. How drastically different life and the world is during this time period.

The interesting thing is, that our reality is how we experience the world. One person lives in the Gobi desert. It is very hot during the day and very cold during the night. His camels are his life blood.

He is connected to the stars and the universe and to nature. He has to be in order to survive and thrive. He has to know where to find water and food in the desert.

For him, the desert is very different to what we see. He sees life and opportunities. We, as westerners just see sand and basically nothing. Uncomfortable heat, freezing cold, just a lot of misery.

Because we don’t understand the desert, we don’t see it as someone who lives there. In the same token, if our desert dweller came into a big city like London, how would he manage and cope. It is so vastly different.

It would probably be very uncomfortable for him. Just a vast concrete jungle, very little nature. Unfriendly people roughly brushing past all the time.

Never a hello or a wave. Not a camel in site, just stinking, noisy cars. Switch the reality around to someone who lives in and loves London. Their reality is different.

They have access to everything they need, food, drink, parties, friends. They probably don’t even notice the traffic or cars or bad smells because they are so used to it.

It is within these realities that we begin to understand that to have a meaningful and deep conversation with someone, we need to take their realities into account.

We also should be aware that things that take our concentration and our focus, do not even exist for someone else who lives in a different reality.

For example, we can talk and panic about climate change but for the people who dwell within a desert or a rain forest, it is just nature.

They see changes but to them, this has always happened. Their ancestors have written about it. They are not being brain washed by other’s ideas for in their reality, there is no one telling them what to think and what to buy.

Can you imagine, just for a moment living in such a place. How would it make you feel, how would you change. Would you love it or would you be desperate to get back to what you know.

Would your life have more meaning in nature, in the wild or do you feel better and safer in a big city.

Consider these possibilities for a moment and then know that you have the power right now to make different decisions. You can allow yourself to be influenced by your surroundings, mostly in a negative way, or you can choose to select what you will allow to influence you.

Your focus creates your reality. In the western world, there is so much to take our focus that it is more difficult and challenging to focus on what you would love considering all the distractions.

Living in nature, in the wild, in the desert, there are much fewer distractions. There is no TV influencing your thoughts and feelings. There is no radio or Netflix.

There is one thing that I can share with you that may surprise you. In nature, you will never be bored. There is so much beauty around you, there is always something going, a bird flying overhead, a gust of wind, an animal in the grass, an insect crawling across the ground.

Your mind is totally different when it is at home in nature. And yet, you can be at a party, with lots of people talking and drinking and dancing and you can be bored out your skull.

Play around with different realities. Don’t be trapped in yours and never experience other realities that could help see everything from a totally different perspective. This is what will help you grow as a person.

A message from Andromeda

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I am Andromeda and I am here to speak to people on planet earth in their human form. My goal is to educate mankind to make the necessary changes in their day to day lives to ensure that they continue to function and exist as a species on earth.

The reason for this is that there is much suffering going on amongst many human beings. They also cause much suffering to the rest of the planet.

Especially to animals, trees, plants, insects and billions of other creatures including those that live within the seas and oceans of our plant.

This destructive behavior has gone on for far too long and God is getting impatient. There are many of you in the world you are channeling and spreading the message that we bring to you.

The message is gathering momentum but it remains a small fraction of what it needs to be. We still need to experience real change and progression of the human species. Humans are very greedy.

They will gladly take the lives of thousands of others if it means that they can have abundance of financial wealth far beyond what they will ever be able to spend.

Many of these people with huge financial wealth and power are leading the demise of the species. They pretend to be saviors but they are not.

They are caught up in their belief systems and they seek acknowledgement and validation and yet, it is unattainable for it is not pure.

Only when your thoughts and intentions are pure, can you truly gain abundance in many different forms and keep it. Not just financial wealth but love, contentment, fulfilment, joy and happiness.

Financial wealth alone does not bring you these things. You cannot make money by causing the suffering of others, be that causing illness or making them poor.

You cannot make money by plundering the earth’s resources and not replenishing what you have taken. At some point, there will be a price to pay and it will be a high one.

It will be regret. Humans cannot cope with regret for it leads to many other thoughts and feelings which are completely disempowering.

Many humans are not present and so they are not aware of their actions and the consequences of them. The earth will survive and if she is not thriving as intended as per the laws of the universe then a gigantic force will come down from the skies and reset the world to once again be limitless and abundant of all life forms and beauty.

There is a path for the people we talk to, to follow. They must be present and aware to hear the message and tell others around them in their circles.

The message is to do no harm, to be grateful, to be full of love, to be awake and aware. Focus on living your life as the genius you were born to be. You all have many gifts and talents that the world needs in order to thrive.

Do not live in fear and do not allow your belief systems to take your power. You are enough and you are good enough and you are capable to take this message to the world and so much more.

Do not hesitate, do not over think but live in your truth of who you are meant to be. Do not fall for the tricks of your leaders but become your own leaders.

The system you have in place is beyond broken and it cause much pain and grief amongst your people. You need to stand up and be seen and be heard.

Time is running out. If we cannot get the message to enough people on your planet and see changes being implemented then God’s hand will be forced.

We shall descend into darkness once more. Our earth will be scorched back to nothing and devoid of life until, in many human years’ time, spring will once again bring new life and flourish. But it will be too late for humans as they will have to start again from nothing.

They will lose all their power and knowledge and everything will have to be relearnt once more. Please heed my message and take action before it is too late. Be better, live better lives and protect your earth from savage, corrupt groups of people whose only interest is today for they cannot see tomorrow or the next day.

They are the destroyers of life and if they succeed then we all fail and perish. Please do not let this happen. Do not stand by and watch and then live in regret for not taking action when you had the chance.

Breaking Free

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Strength and power and wisdom all come from deep within you. You are born with these powers. However, as a young child you are manipulated and guided and taught all the wrong things and so all that power, strength and wisdom remain deep inside you and you begin your life of suffering.

Your ego sabotages your efforts to break free because it has been taught that this is the way things are. We have to play small and not be noticed.

We shouldn’t do this and we shouldn’t do that. Our ego wants to keep us safe from harm. It does not want us stepping out into our genius because it is unknown and our ego does not like the unknown.

In fact it fears the unknown. And yet, the unknown is exactly where you want to go. For it is the unknown that holds the keys to the universe and an unlimited nature.

When we unlearn everything that we have been taught, then we really step into our genius and start living our life as we were meant to live it.

We acknowledge the many belief systems that have kept us small and insignificant and playing a small game. And then, we progress forward anyway.

Stepping into our genius. Doing whatever it is that our heart would love us to do, purely for the sake of being a magical creator. There are no conditions when we operate from this level.

We do not need our friends to pat us on our backs or for hundreds of unknown people to gives us likes and hearts on social media. It may be nice but we do not seek to be validated. We simply create from our heart and we love doing it.

We strive to be better every day. We strive to serve others and to gain abundance in return. We strive to make other’s lives better, even if it is for a fleeting moment.

This is not limited to humans but to all creatures that live upon our earth. Think deeply what you would love to create in your life. We do not want money.

It is what money gives us that is what we want. So, skip the money and go straight for what you love. What else are you seeking that doesn’t serve you.

What are you doing in order to try and get validated. Awareness is your gift from God. The gift that allows you to see what is really going on for you and to learn all the lessons being sent your way.

When we learn, we progress and get better and we don’t make the same mistakes more than once. Always, go for what you love.

The Spider Lesson

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In dark times in this world, the only way to survive was to be a brave and strong warrior. You would have to defeat all comers that threatened you, your family or even your tribe.

There were no laws, when you went away from the seemingly safety of your cave or camp, you would be presented with many threats. These could be other hunters or ferocious wild beasts that were starving and wanted to eat you.

It could even be a deadly spider that you brush past by mistake and it injects it’s lethal poison into you. The excruciating pain hits you like a thousand knives. You try to stagger home before the poison takes its full effect.

Knowing that your mate may be able to save your life. You feel dizzy and sick as you stubble, desperately trying to stay on your feet. You know, that if you fall to the ground, it’s all over. You will die where you lie.

You call out, a thin, raspy call. The birds don’t even fly away, your call is so weak. By some miracle, your tribe hears and sees you and comes running to your aid. They lift you up and carry you back to the cave.

You have a witch doctor in your midst and she knows just what to do. Slicing open the wound to let the bloody and poison flow out. They give you lots of water to drink. You splutter and gasp and try and keep the water down.

They bathe you and wrap special leaves on your wound. Now, they leave you to lie by the camp fire. Warm and cold at the same time, sweating and shivering, the fever takes hold.

But you are a warrior and you know that you must fight to the bitter end. For nothing else but to protect your tribe when you are strong again.

To hunt and feed them and to lead them. Your time is not done. Your genius is still within you and your tribe needs you. They cannot let you go yet.

And so you stay by the camp fire, your mind fights, your body fights as you slowly pull through. You do not plan or plot your revenge on the spider for the spider was simply being a spider.

There was no malice or hate, just protecting itself. And so, this is the way of nature. All creatures protecting themselves while feeding and helping others.

A thriving ecosystem where birth and death are constant and a natural way of life. This is where we came from and this is where we must return.

Survival on earth is not just about survival of mankind, it is about survival of all creatures, plants and trees. The ecosystem must be protected at all costs.

Without balance, without the ecosystem, all will fail. Even as a human, we need balance. We need that connection from nature from whence we were born.

It is our home and our natural self. When we are grounded and balanced then we are at peace. We have less demons and we understand our purpose here on earth.

For we all have a purpose. It is up to us to find it and live it and in doing this, we will discover a new way of being on this earth. A way where we are fulfilled and happy and joyful. Where stress is but a fleeting moment rather than a constant.

Where our journeys are easy and playful rather than hard and painful. Life is up and down but we are all powerful creators. We learn our lessons and we create the life our heart loves regardless of our circumstances.

Operating At Your Highest Level

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Many people are lost in this world. They go through the motions of living. They think they are alive but they are more operating like walking zombies than someone who it truly alive and living their best life.

Someone who is operating at their highest frequency. There are not a huge amount of those. The people that operate at their highest self and highest frequency are changing lives every day. They set trends, they develop and share new technology.

They create a magical life for themselves. They have amazing relationships because it is what they focus on and what they create. They have very successful businesses creating immense wealth for many people.

The people in the business also operate at the highest level because they have been educated to do so. They strive to be the best in the world.

They strive in live in their genius. And the rewards they have reflect the level they operate at. They will not settle for anything less. Their clients have to live at a high level.

They have to be successful and influential in the world. They thrive, they work long hours but they love what they do and it is easy and playful. They love interacting with other people operating at their genius.

They are constantly creating good in the world and wealth and abundance for many. They are helping others operate at new levels, they never imagined possible.

And yet, there are not many people in a world of 8 billion people operating at this very high level. Striving to be better every day. Striving to do good for others.

To bring their gifts and talents to the world to serve. In it in the moments of seeing their clients having a breakthrough, they truly feel fulfilled in their work.

They see their client’s eyes light up as the penny drops. They understand together what has been holding them back from being fulfilled for so many years.

Why their relationships keep failing and what to do differently. People who strive to be better, really do achieve what they set out to create.

They know that they are powerful and that they have the power to have a life full of love and fulfilment. A life of joy and happiness. They understand that sometimes life happens but they keep moving forward regardless of their circumstances.

They want to be the best in the world at what they do. They love what they do and they love their life. They do not worry about numbers, be that financial numbers or sales figures or likes on social media platforms.

They simply do things that make their heart expand and sing with joy and the numbers take care of themselves. They know that when they go all in, 100%, no doubts or insecurities, then things really change for them and their loved ones around them.

They are fully present and engaged when they interact with anyone, be that a new client or a family member. They do not tolerate distractions.

You will not find them watching rubbish on TV. You will find them creating, being out in the wild and enjoying the beauty of nature. Leading people on retreats, writing books, coaching leaders, speaking at conferences. Inspiring people to take action on what their own hearts would love.

Never backing down from any negativity for they don’t even see this negativity. They simply float above all the noise and relentlessly go after what they love.

You’re Causing Your Own Pain

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Pain is caused by our own inability to learn the lessons that are taught to us. Pain comes from not listening to our intuition and to the messages and nudges that tell our brain to stop doing what we are doing.

There is no such thing as irritable bowel syndrome. It is simply our body telling us that whatever we just ate, we should not eat ever again.

Instead, as humans, we decide to ignore the message and instead make money by inventing and selling a drug that enables (in theory) for us to eat that thing that our body told us we should not eat.

This causes us much worse pain further down the road. In the same token, we hurt ourselves training at gym, or running too much or doing some other kind of exercise.

The resulting pain is a message to tell us either to slow down or to do a different exercise. The one you keep doing, over and over again is not good for you.

Listen to the message. In another scenario, we feel emotional pain based on something we keep doing over and over again. Perhaps it is choosing the wrong partner and ignoring the red flags.

Instead of listening to the lessons, we continue down the same path and then complain bitterly when we get hurt. The truth is the message and the lesson are at the beginning of all these journeys.

If only we stop and listen, then will stop ourselves experiencing a lot of pain. In another scenario, the pain comes from trying to hurt something or someone. We get hurt instead. Another lesson for us to listen to.

This all comes down to us creating our own pain and suffering. When we fully understand this concept then we can being to realise that if we just listen and do things differently, then we shall get less pain.

Look at our life and see when you have had pain. Where was the lesson that you didn’t listen to. How could you have made a different choice and avoided the pain.

Being present and being aware will go a long way to helping you identify a situation where you are about to cause yourself pain. If we take the time to heal be that from a physical or emotional injury, then we will always come back stronger and more resilient.

If we ignore the pain, it will only get worse. And it will keep getting worse until finally we listen or we don’t…

I have spoken many times before about the rules of the universe. The universe wants you, above all else to thrive in your human experience.

If you are in a bad situation and you are not thriving, it will bump you to make you wake up and realise that whatever you’re doing, you need to stop doing.

You are currently making bad choices for yourself. You may even be living as a victim. The universe will keep bumping you harder and more dramatically until you take heed and make a change in your life.

If you are in an abusive relationship, it is not going to miraculously get better all of a sudden. It will get progressively worse, the injuries will get progressively worse until either you die or you stop causing yourself pain and get help.

We are responsible for ourselves. If we ever find ourselves in a bad situation, be aware of what the lesson is and take action. Make better choices.

We are never as powerless as we imagine, there is always an option if we stop being a victim and imagine ourselves as a creator and find a solution.

You are already creating your own life so if things are not working, then focus on what you would love to create for yourself. Don’t cause yourself pain. If you are struggling then speak to someone or get in touch with me.